In-Person Sex Coaching & Bodywork
Personalised - Educational - Experiential - Transformative
How can Embodied Sex, Intimacy, Sexological Bodywork, and Breathwork Coaching help you?
Working in person means we have the opportunity to do hands on body-work and exercises to support your embodiment and integration of the mind-body.
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I weave Embodied Sex Coaching, Sexological Bodywork and Breathwork to guide you in a personalised body-based sex education you never had. Explore your needs and desires, release your beliefs and experiences, create new pleasure pathways and discover a deeper connection to yourself and others. We can cover physiology, anatomy, breathwork, foundations of touch, somatic learning, body and genital mapping, consent and boundaries, destigmatising STIs, ageing and body image, active receiving, genital dearmouring, scar tissue remediation, and masturbation coaching.
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Empower yourself to live a more authentic, connected and pleasure filled life. I work from private studios in Portland, Oregon (NE, SE & SW) and visit surrounding areas.
How it works
1. Discovering Safety
Working in person as an individual or as a couple can be a transformative experience, and I guide you find and to stay in connection to your unique sense of safety, through resourcing and anchoring. From there you can begin to experience more authenticity, connection and pleasure, little by little.
2. What is your intention?
From our very first call, we work together to explore and meet your overall intention, objectives, desires and curiosities. And if you don't yet know what those are, we can work that out together too!
3. Each session is unique
When people ask me what is going to happen in a session, I reply "I don't know". What I can tell you is at the beginning of every session, you bring a learning objective (intention) and we co-create an educational contract that holds your intention; (a menu of options to explore), and I create time for assimilation and summarising your key takeaways to support your integration.
4. Finding Embodied Consent
Consent and safety are the most important foundational pieces for this work. Learning to stay in harmony with a regulated nervous system takes time, this work requires practice and commitment .
5. Number of sessions
You are invited to work with me for a minimum of eight sessions. I offer year long packages for folks who are committed to lasting change. When I work with couples we begin with two separate sessions and one together. From there, you have the option to continue meeting separately and/or together.
6. Frequency of sessions
I recommend sessions every other week for busy folks and parents, and every week for those wanting a more focused approach. When collaborating with another professional, some clients prefer monthly. Explore and discover what works best for you.
7. Your next step
Your next step to explore working with me is to book your 45 minute Disconnected to Deeply Loving Discovery Call, which takes place on zoom. During this call we will ask each other questions, and I offer some strategies for your next steps, and we can explore whether we are a good fit to work together. If I do not feel able to support you, I can refer you to someone or offer some resources that may help. You can opt in to receive a follow up email containing a summary of our call and we take it from there. ​
8. Ethics & Professional Boundaries
I follow the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers Ethics Policy and only offer one-way, gloved touch. Please read my ethics, personal boundaries and policy page, so you can understand more.
Are you a man or do you know a man who wants to work on their sexuality with integrity?
I am delighted to announce that I am working individually with cis-het men again.
The world needs men doing their work, integrating mind and body, with heart.
It is an honor to hold this space for you.
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Does any of this sound like you?
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You are struggling with erectile dysfunction
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You have habitual porn use
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You not know how to initiate sex or intimacy
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You are struggling with integrity when it comes to sexuality
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You can only access fantasy led sex - need to fantasize/use porn to become/stay aroused
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You are feeling confused or shame about your sexuality
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You don't know how to connect with women (particularly since #metoo movement)
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You feel disappointed with the sex you are having or the women you are attracting, but don't know how to change it
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You are stuck being friend-zoned, or your partner gets turned off (despite everything you do to try and please her/them)
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You've done some personal development work, therapy, or you are connected with the earth and desire to live in a more just and balanced society.
AND you are ready to do some deep yet compassionate excavation of your trauma, witness and integrate your shadows, decondition your religious, cultural and societal patriarchal conditioning and embark on this valuable and much needed healing work, book your discovery call now.
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It would be an honor to walk beside you on your journey
"My partner began to open up and provide feedback in a way I could comprehend which made it far easier to adapt what I was doing, put my doubts to bed and explore knowing that we would catch each other if we fell"
Couple, UK