Growing up in the ‘80s and ‘90s, I learned that sex was something I had to do—an obligation, a task to check off the list. My role? To look the part, to provide, to make sure they were satisfied.
I could orgasm on my own, but with a partner? That felt impossible. I was numb. When someone asked me what I liked in bed, I froze, deflected, and faked more orgasms than I could count—just to get it over with.
There was even a time when I recoiled at my partner’s touch, knowing that any form of intimacy would inevitably lead to penetration.
And when I did allow it? I felt…mostly nothing.
Just staring at the ceiling, bored, disconnected, frozen.
And in the silence of my mind, the thoughts churned:
Surely everyone else is having incredible sex, right? Like in the movies? There must be something wrong with me.
I knew, deep down, that sex had to be better than this.
The Moment Everything Changed
At 28, newly divorced with two young kids, I began my journey of sexual self-discovery.
I realized that for me, sex wasn’t just a physical act with a bit of warm up needed—it required so much more: context, emotional connection, play, polarity, curiosity, and most importantly… a deep presence with in and through my own body.
I finally saw how much I had been outsourcing my pleasure—expecting my partner to make me feel turned on, wanting, and connected. I convinced myself that if he changed—if he approached me differently, helped more around the house, or created more non-sexual intimacy—then I’d finally want sex.
And while those things do matter, I was missing the biggest piece of all:
🔥 I was responsible for my own pleasure. 🔥
Taking My Pleasure Into My Own Hands (Literally & Figuratively)
Once I claimed my pleasure as mine—my curiosity, my responsibility—everything changed.
I played. I experimented. I felt free. I rediscovered desire on my terms.
Fast forward 12 years, and my pleasure has expanded beyond what I once thought possible. Multiple orgasms. Full-body pleasure. Deep connection. The ability to feel and move erotic energy from simply touching my own hands.
And yet… does this mean I’m in a constant state of horny goddess bliss 24/7?
Absolutely not.
I still go through seasons where I close off, where my pleasure feels far away.
But here’s the difference: I have tools. I have the practices that bring me back home to my body, my pleasure, and my power. I know how to name what I need, advocate for my desires, give and receive with an open heart.
Ready to Explore This For Yourself?
The best part? You don’t need to spend 12 years, take countless trainings, or invest thousands of dollars to access this transformation.
I've created an accessible, supportive way for you to begin this journey now—at your own pace, in a way that fits your life.
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🔸 Three 90-minute online sessions
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🔸 Written support materials where needed
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This is your invitation to step into a year brimming with possibility, change, and deep erotic empowerment.
If you’re ready to reclaim your pleasure, your confidence, and your connection to yourself—let’s talk.
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I want this work to be accessible, which is why I offer co-created payment plans that fit your budget and needs.
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